I’m not having fun, but you are having fun. Isn’t that the very definition of a personal problem?
But what’s also none of your business is telling me how I -should- be playing, in order to have fun.
Maybe the environment is partially at fault.
But if I don’t proceed to change my environment, it falls back on me (aka personal again) as to why I’m not getting any. Fun, that is.
The $64,000 question though, “How do I know when I’m having fun?”